Stuff She Did!
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Her Eyes Only
It was really hard to believe what you did to me, considering the life we had together. Why do you think through our divorce, I never tried to hurt you in any way? Because I focused on the first 30 years we had together. Our two beautiful kids. We were lovers and best friends. We did everything together.
If it wasn’t bad enough when we were going through the road construction, you decided you wanted a divorce. I try to understand why, I know we were under a lot of stress and money was tight. The part I could not understand was the stuff you did to me! All I kept thinking about was the history we had together, how could she do these things to me. What did I do to her? You acted like I was the one that filed for the divorce.
If it wasn’t bad enough when we were going through the road construction, you decided you wanted a divorce. I try to understand why, I know we were under a lot of stress and money was tight. The part I could not understand was the stuff you did to me! All I kept thinking about was the history we had together, how could she do these things to me. What did I do to her? You acted like I was the one that filed for the divorce.
Remember when we used to talk about other people going through divorces. We could not believe what they were doing to each other. We always said, it would be easier just split everything down the middle, 50/50. Because the only ones that ever makes out, are the attorneys! Didn't you have four different attorneys representing you?. I remember you telling me you had over $25,000 in attorney fees! I thought to myself, you had the chance to settle, but didn't. You want to keep taking it back to court!
You must have forgot about that conversation.
About halfway through our divorce, it finally occurred to me. You like playing the Victim!
Early on in our marriage, I remembered on several occasions, my family would tell me you were complaining about me. As time went on, I remember our friends coming up to me saying the same thing. I remember when your nephew told me you were always complaining about me to your family. I was so mad, because I always tried to do my best and give you everything you wanted. I never stopped trying to do the right thing and make you happy. I did everything I could possibly do to make sure you were not the victim!!
All the times you trashed me through our divorce, did you ever let people know, the first nine years I never missed a payment?
$650 a week! Did you let them know, I never raised my hand or called you a bad name for all over 40 years. Also, did you tell them, through our divorce, I was always there for you. If you need something or someone to talk to, I was there! In reality, you should have thought about all the things I did for you. Instead of taking everything from me! The sad thing about it, as time went on you quit appreciating things, you expect them!
The part that really haunted me for the last 11 years. In You were perfectly happy with our deal. $312,000 plus I paid $54,000 which was half of what we owed before our divorce. See the breakdown Even your attorney told you, he could never get you the amount of money I was offering you. $366,000 It was more than our properties were worth! I was just trying to take care of you just I always have!
No, you got greedy and wanted more. You wait to the day we get into court and you add another $50,000 to the deal. Sure, I have a choice to say no and we would have to come back to court in 45 days. All the things you did prior to our court date, I could take anymore. Remember this stuff. So, you got away with stealing another $50,000 of me. I had to sell everything to come up with first $25,000 cash.
You couldn’t stop there! I had a chance to keep the lake house, the one I put my heart and soul into building. My dream house! But you went around and telling everybody that I quit making the payments. You should have told them the truth; it was your choice if I could keep the house or not!!!!! All you had to do was keep your name on the mortgage for a little while.
After you getting the extra $50,000 on top of everything else. It still wasn’t good enough!!
We both know the judge said once you started receiving health insurance through work, I did not have to pay the extra $50 a week. Remember you telling me, once you received health insurance through work, you thought the extra $50 a week was going toward the last part of the $50,000 I owned you. That was an extra $23,000 I had to pay you, which should have gone toward the last $25,000 owed you!
Don’t forget about what else you and your attorney did. Supposed to pay you $25,000 at the end of the term. But Instead of the 25,000 it went two 39,000 which cost another $13,000.
You know it’s hard, but I am trying my best not to sit and dwell on all the things you have done to me for the last 11 years. It’s really hard to get over all the things you caused me to lose. Including my properties and my retirement!! No matter how you look at it and try to spin it like it was not your fault. It clearly shows in this website it was.
If you would have done what the court ordered you to do, I would have not lost everything! Remember how happy I was then you said you were going to stick to the $50,000 agreement. You were finally giving me something back. I explained to you how important it was to give me something back. On top of everything I lost, you could not even stick to our agreement.
Sometimes I wonder how you live with yourself!
I remember when your nephew would do all those bad things and never think he was wrong. It didn’t matter what I did for him, it was never enough. It amazes me when you can tell some people yes nine times in a row and they are perfectly happy. Then you tell them no one time and they are ready to destroy your life. Sound familiar? You hurt me in a lot of ways, but the one that hurt the most, you forgot about all the this I did for you in the last 40 years.
After you see what in this website, you might realize all the terrible things you’ve done and did not do for me! All the stories you have told people about me that were not true! Put yourself all in my shoes and you will see why I’m having a hard time getting over what you had done and losing everything! Maybe you'll see who the real victim is!!
QUESTION!
I have always wondered; did you do all this to just to made me miserable?
Or because you had a million-dollar life insurance policy on me and was hoping it would kill me?
You must have forgot about that conversation.
About halfway through our divorce, it finally occurred to me. You like playing the Victim!
Early on in our marriage, I remembered on several occasions, my family would tell me you were complaining about me. As time went on, I remember our friends coming up to me saying the same thing. I remember when your nephew told me you were always complaining about me to your family. I was so mad, because I always tried to do my best and give you everything you wanted. I never stopped trying to do the right thing and make you happy. I did everything I could possibly do to make sure you were not the victim!!
All the times you trashed me through our divorce, did you ever let people know, the first nine years I never missed a payment?
$650 a week! Did you let them know, I never raised my hand or called you a bad name for all over 40 years. Also, did you tell them, through our divorce, I was always there for you. If you need something or someone to talk to, I was there! In reality, you should have thought about all the things I did for you. Instead of taking everything from me! The sad thing about it, as time went on you quit appreciating things, you expect them!
The part that really haunted me for the last 11 years. In You were perfectly happy with our deal. $312,000 plus I paid $54,000 which was half of what we owed before our divorce. See the breakdown Even your attorney told you, he could never get you the amount of money I was offering you. $366,000 It was more than our properties were worth! I was just trying to take care of you just I always have!
No, you got greedy and wanted more. You wait to the day we get into court and you add another $50,000 to the deal. Sure, I have a choice to say no and we would have to come back to court in 45 days. All the things you did prior to our court date, I could take anymore. Remember this stuff. So, you got away with stealing another $50,000 of me. I had to sell everything to come up with first $25,000 cash.
You couldn’t stop there! I had a chance to keep the lake house, the one I put my heart and soul into building. My dream house! But you went around and telling everybody that I quit making the payments. You should have told them the truth; it was your choice if I could keep the house or not!!!!! All you had to do was keep your name on the mortgage for a little while.
After you getting the extra $50,000 on top of everything else. It still wasn’t good enough!!
We both know the judge said once you started receiving health insurance through work, I did not have to pay the extra $50 a week. Remember you telling me, once you received health insurance through work, you thought the extra $50 a week was going toward the last part of the $50,000 I owned you. That was an extra $23,000 I had to pay you, which should have gone toward the last $25,000 owed you!
Don’t forget about what else you and your attorney did. Supposed to pay you $25,000 at the end of the term. But Instead of the 25,000 it went two 39,000 which cost another $13,000.
You know it’s hard, but I am trying my best not to sit and dwell on all the things you have done to me for the last 11 years. It’s really hard to get over all the things you caused me to lose. Including my properties and my retirement!! No matter how you look at it and try to spin it like it was not your fault. It clearly shows in this website it was.
If you would have done what the court ordered you to do, I would have not lost everything! Remember how happy I was then you said you were going to stick to the $50,000 agreement. You were finally giving me something back. I explained to you how important it was to give me something back. On top of everything I lost, you could not even stick to our agreement.
Sometimes I wonder how you live with yourself!
I remember when your nephew would do all those bad things and never think he was wrong. It didn’t matter what I did for him, it was never enough. It amazes me when you can tell some people yes nine times in a row and they are perfectly happy. Then you tell them no one time and they are ready to destroy your life. Sound familiar? You hurt me in a lot of ways, but the one that hurt the most, you forgot about all the this I did for you in the last 40 years.
After you see what in this website, you might realize all the terrible things you’ve done and did not do for me! All the stories you have told people about me that were not true! Put yourself all in my shoes and you will see why I’m having a hard time getting over what you had done and losing everything! Maybe you'll see who the real victim is!!
QUESTION!
I have always wondered; did you do all this to just to made me miserable?
Or because you had a million-dollar life insurance policy on me and was hoping it would kill me?